I don't know how to be happy on my own. I feel like I'm constantly searching for "the one" and I am repeatedly let down. All my friends say "don't look, love will find you" but how do I go about NOT looking?
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Anonymous
By loving yourself first.
It would be selfish of you to depend on another person for happiness when you can’t even be happy on your own. I don’t want to be with an unhappy person. I’m sure you wouldn’t want to either. I especially don’t want a relationship with somebody who needed that much emotional dependency. It’s stressful and that’s not what you bring to a relationship. It’s like if we’re going into a business together and i’m bringing in all the money, costumers, clocking in all the hours and all you’re doing is just showing up.
You need to bring something to the table in a relationship. And if you can’t learn to be happy on your own, how can you expect to make somebody else happy. I’m a big believe in what you put out into the universe you’ll get it back three times over. Love yourself first, and let the pieces fall in order after that.
